During church the other day our pastor introduced us to something called the “Principle of Inescapable influence.” I found it fascinating and worth sharing with you all.

The principle:

Whatever rules your heart will exercise inescapable influence over your life and behavior, dramatically affecting the lives of those closest to you.

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This means that whatever is most important in your life, or anything you value before God, will ultimately become a stumbling block for you and the people closest to you. The Bible is full of examples of this.

Historical examples:

King Saul, for instance, made his Kingdom and his dynasty the most important thing in his life. His idol drove him to reject God, attempt to kill David several times, kill hundreds of priests, and ultimately resulted in the death of his three sons and himself.

Another Saul in the Bible, the man who would eventually become the apostle Paul, put his religion above everything else. He dedicated himself to the law, was one of the greatest students of Judaism  on his way to becoming a “pharisee of pharisees.” As a result, he arrested, tortured, and had people killed because they believed in Jesus.

But the Principle does not need to have a negative effect. If God rules your heart, than it will have an inescapable influence on the lives of those closest to you as well. In one of the most dramatic heart changes in history, Saul of Tarsus came to know Jesus. From that day forward, the Love of Christ ruled his heart.

The people he loved in his life like Timothy and Barnabas were enabled to do great things. He planted churches all over the world and had brothers and sisters in Christ. Perhaps no one, outside of Jesus himself, has had such a positive impact on the church as Paul.

Modern Examples:

The Principle, of course, still applies today. While we might like to think our beliefs and our cravings and our passions are personal and will only affect us, this simply is not true.

For instance, I have often heard that pornography is a very private sin and doesn’t really hurt anyone. And yet, there are hundreds of thousands of families that have been destroyed because of a porn addiction. It devastates your spouse and leaves children with broken hearts. A 2004 study indicated that 56% of divorces cited pornography as one of the causes. In the past decade, it has only gotten easier to find it and watch it. If it rules your heart, it will negatively affect those closest to you.

It’s easy to see how a bad thing ruling your heart can have a negative effect on those around you, but what about good things? What if your spouse or children rule your heart instead of God? Will that have a negative effect?

CS Lewis explains the results best, “When I have learnt to love God better than my earthly dearest, I shall love my earthly dearest better than I do now. In so far as I learn to love my earthly dearest at the expense of God and instead of God, I shall be moving towards the state in which I shall not love my earthly dearest at all. When first things are put first, second things are not suppressed but increased.

Living Fully:

If you want to live fully, you must put “first things first.” When God rules your heart above all others, your capacity to love those closest to you will only grow. Instead of slowly becoming corrupted and falling further away from the truth, you will grow in producing the fruits of the spirit.

So what rules your heart? If it isn’t God, then repent and turn to Him! Not only will that bless your life, but it will also bless the lives of those you care about most.

Fave Five 7.12.13

Brian Burchik —  July 12, 2013

1) Favorite video about 20 Somethings:

2) Favorite commercial

3) Favorite Experiment:

4) Favorite News graphic: The Desolation of Smaug

5) Favorite Conversation with a 2 year old: 

This past week has been pretty rough for Paula Deen. After being accused of using racial slurs in the past, Dean came forward and confessed that it was true. She claimed she had used those words in the past, but no longer used them.

Paula Deen

The media criticized her harshly, she lost her job and some important endorsements, and plenty of people have declared her a horrible person.

Now, I don’t actually know Paula Dean. I’ve never eaten at her restaurant in my home state of Georgia, and I haven’t even watched her show before. While I’m sure she has certainly made mistakes in the past and I won’t defend or condone what she said or did, I am somewhat alarmed at the way she is being treated. Continue Reading…

Fave Five 06.28.13

Evan Forester —  June 28, 2013

1) Favorite Map: Top brands from each state

 

2) Favorite Presentation: The Evolution of the Bikini

3) Favorite Whistle: This awesome one…

 

4) Favorite Slam Dunk: 6’2″ Christian Terrell (upcoming senior in high school)

5) Favorite Skydiver: The guy who caught this shoe falling through the air

Hi everyone!

Thanks again to everyone who submitted photos, and thanks also to everyone who voted. We actually had twice as many people vote this year than last year, so it’s cool to see the contest growing.

If you didn’t win, don’t worry as I’m sure we’ll have more contests in the future. Just keep taking great photos and making great art!

And now…the winner is…

Mary Claire Stewart with “Wonder”!!! We love this pic for a lot of reasons. It shows genuine creativity and a positive outlook on life. There is no reason life should be mundane! Life should be lived to the full!

Living fully is to use your imagination to see wonder in the world around you, so that the ordinary and mundane becomes spectacular.

Living fully is to use your imagination to see wonder in the world around you, so that the ordinary and mundane becomes spectacular.

Mary Claire wins a $50 Amazon gift card, which she can basically use towards anything she likes. Hopefully it’s something that helps her make the world less mundane.

And in second place, we’ll just agree with the voters on this one. Congrats Gabe Gomez on your excellent Superman photo. You’ll receive a #LiveFully t-shirt.

“I chose this picture because it reminds me of superman (my favorite superhero). And, it’s my brother doing something awesome/ something I couldn’t do.”

I chose this picture because it reminds me of superman (my favorite superhero). And, it's my brother doing something awesome/ something I couldn't do.

Thanks again everyone! Keep on taking great pictures! And while you’re at it, why not Join #LiveFully so you don’t miss the next contest?

The Photo Contest results are in! Thanks to everyone who submitted, we loved going through all the photos and selecting our Fave Five. But only part of the work is done! You will need to vote for the final winner, so make sure you make your voice heard! Whoever receives the most votes will receive a $50 Amazon giftcard. Voting will take place here on #LiveFully and last until 11:59pm on June 24 (Eastern USA time) and we will announce the winner on June 25. The #LiveFully team will select a runner-up to win a #LiveFully t-shirt.

The following five pictures are our finalists, but you can see every picture that entered the contest in the gallery below. Simply click on any photo in this page and you will see an enlarged version with the description and photographer’s name.

1) Nolan McClure “Open Seas”

This is the passage a boat must cross to get get out into open seas from a port in Cabo Frio, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.  “A ship in harbour is safe, but that’s not what ships are built for” – John Shedd.

This is the passage a boat must cross to get get out into open seas from a port in Cabo Frio, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.  "A ship in harbour is safe, but that's not what ships are built for" - John Shedd.

2) Mary Claire Stewart “Wonder”

Living fully is to use your imagination to see wonder in the world around you, so that the ordinary and mundane becomes spectacular.

Living fully is to use your imagination to see wonder in the world around you, so that the ordinary and mundane becomes spectacular.

3) Heana Park “Narnia”

Inspired by Narnia, create your own Narnia.

Inspired by Narnia, create your own Narnia.

4) Davy “Sunset”

A gorgeous sunset in Sarasota, FL encourages me to continue living for today!

A gorgeous sunset in Sarasota, FL encourages me to continue living for today!

5) Gabe Gomez “Superman”

I chose this picture because it reminds me of superman (my favorite superhero). And, it’s my brother doing something awesome/ something I couldn’t do.

I chose this picture because it reminds me of superman (my favorite superhero). And, it's my brother doing something awesome/ something I couldn't do.

You’ve seen the top five, now it is time for you to vote! If you can’t vote in your email, then click here to choose your favorite. After voting, why not share this page with others so they can vote too? Don’t forget to check the rest of the great entries. It was way too hard to pick the top five, but we’ve done our best!

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“If we consider the unblushing promises of reward and the staggering nature of the rewards promised in the gospels, it would seem that our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.”

What do you think? Are we too easily pleased? Or do we desire all the fullness that God has to offer us?

The Fave Five 06.14.13

Evan Forester —  June 14, 2013

*Don’t forget to enter our photo contest!!!

1) Favorite use of legos: Jesus walks on water

 

2) Favorite interview: Bono – Grace over Karma

3) Favorite movie trailer: The Desolation of Smaug

4) Favorite (honest) movie trailer: Superman IV: The Quest for Peace

5) Favorite image: Sea is for cookie

Sea is for Cookie

Last weekend, Erin and I had the opportunity to go out together and see The Great Gatsby in 3-D. We were pumped because, like many Americans, we had read the book back in high school, but forgotten just enough of the plot to be surprised. Plus, the trailer was so epic that we had to experience the film.

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Leading up to it, I talked with friends that had already seen the movie, and all of their responses were strange. They said things like, “I’m not sure if I liked it or not,” or “It was weird.” It was as if they couldn’t figure out how they felt about it.

I didn’t understand their uncertainty until I sat there in the theater, watching the final credits roll at the movie’s conclusion.  I was completely unsettled. Emotionally torn. Just like my friends, I sat there confused.

There was incredible acting (Dicaprio was made for this role), beautiful cinematography, and superb music (mostly hip hop). It had all the right ingredients, but I sat there unsure if what they created together was good at all.

Then it hit me. The cause of the confusion boiled down to one thing: There’s no redemption in the end.

I won’t go into detail because I don’t want to spoil it for those unfamiliar with the story. But that’s really it. This tale offers no hero, no victory, and no redemption for us to grab hold of, and that’s why it’s so unsettling.

It’s the lack of redemption that makes the story of Gatsby so profound and provocative! It reveals our deep longing for redemption, for heroes to emerge, for things to be made right. Our humanity cries out, “Just give us something redemptive to cling to at the end!”

But Gatsby gives no such thing. And for this reason, it’s brilliant. It tells the truth of life without a greater hope or meaning. It honestly portrays the selfishness of humanity. And it leaves you right there in the middle of it. In that mess, I personally found myself full of gratitude for Jesus, for redemption, and for the hope and meaning we find in following Him. #LiveFully

It’s time for the 2nd annual photo contest here at #LiveFully! Last year’s was a huge success with lots of great entries. Here was our winner:

This year we want to see even more awesome photos. So grab your digital camera, smartphone, or polaroid and see what you can do.

What We Want: You are allowed to submit up to three photos. The theme this year is “Unleash Your Imagination.” That means you can submit just about anything you want, but if you want some ideas perhaps these will help: An image in nature that inspires you, people laughing together, someone working creatively, a fun activity, time with family, or anything else, we want to see it!

How You Enter: Simply e-mail your pictures to [email protected]. Include a tweet sized (140 characters or less) description or explanation of why you chose that picture and what it means to you. You must submit by 11:59pm on June 19. Since the theme is Unleash Your Imagination, feel free to use some special effects or editing, but remember they may not give you a special advantage.

How You Win: We will select up to 5 finalists and post them on June 21’s Fave Five, and then you will vote on the ultimate winner! Voting will take place here on #LiveFully and last until 11:59pm on June 24 and we will announce the winner on June 25. The choice will be yours, and may the best photo win!

What You Win: The Winner will receive a $50 Amazon gift card. Sweet! Plus, we’ll feature your image here on the site and tell the world about how great you are at photography. The contributors here at #LiveFully will also select a second place winner, based on our own judgment, and you will win a #LiveFully t-shirt!

Other Cool info: We will post ALL pictures on the site and on our facebook page. Also, by e-mailing us a photo for this contest, you give us permission to post your submitted picture(s) online.

This is going to be so fun! Submit your work as early as possible. Seriously, don’t wait just do it now before you forget and the world misses out on your art! And please, ask any questions in the comments below: